Challuuuuunge!!!

July 28,2013

Now I have not told too much of myself.  I don't have a problem being a mystery,  especially to the right one *wink wink!  I'm sure the excitement of that SPECIAL one delving in to the clues and finding facts of my person would be pretty exciting....if he does it right!  But I'm a single mommy.  I'm not dating anyone.  Not really sure I want to be doing all that dating stuff.  I just simply don't have the time for it.  I want that special guy, lover, friend, and confident to just fall right into my lap.  Yes ma'am...wishful thinking I know.  But a girl can dream right?   I guess what I'm saying is that there is just too much game playing out there.  Not enough men who want and are serious about what they want.  Having said that I must also say it has been quite a long time since the kitty was able to puurrrr and rub herself up against something.  Yeah I'm quite the vocalist.  I do not have constipation of the mouth!!!

I think that one of the main things of being in a healthy relationship, marriage, or partnership,is that  there has got to be some intimacy and a LOT of it!!!  Intimacy can be a variety of things. It could be simple pillow talk, the two of you naked, lying in bed, caressing one another.  It could be snuggling up on the swing on the porch watching the sun set.  It could be jumping in the shower and giving him/her a bath and washing their hair. The point is you and your special one should explore each other.  For instance, you may notice your loved one may be a little stressed out, uptight, or even restless. A good fuck session may be what they need to release some of that pressure or uptight feeling.  Trust me they would have a hell of restful night too!  Talk to each other when making love.  All of those things you find beautiful or handsome about each other that you fail to comment on day by day, express them!  

Release the bobcat in her!  Let the lion in him ROAR!!!  That kinky shit that he/she asks for that you're afraid to do....take that risk!!!  You may find that it brings your inner souls closer together.  Hell that chick at the office that's trying to get him to go out to happy hour so she can get drunk and persuade him to take her home, won't have a chance baby, cuz he'll be running home so he can tame that lioness like he did this morning!!!  Or 'ol boy that's been thinking he been getting your panties wet because he brushes up against you won't have a chance, because little did he know BIG PAPA  laid the PIPE  reeaall good on ya last night!  

Like Bernie Mac used to say "I'm just saying what some of ya'll thinking but scared to say" !!!  Or maybe my ass is just horny!!!  These are the times when you can really appreciate having someone who loves and cares about you laying next to you.  

So my challenge to you is tonight, "turn off the lights, get closerrrr".  Or like Kings of Leon, let him/ her know their "sex is on fire".  Take out the sexy lingerie, and if you don't have any get buck naked and put on the cutest bad ass heels you have and make that man/woman howl at the moon!!!  Whether you gonna fuck the daylights out of them or be smooth and sensual, do it with PASSION!!!  Be creative but BE SAFE!!


So how many of you will be taking the challenge this week?


Random thought:  Some people see the glass half full, some see it half empty!